Welcome to my blog:
This blog is about “me and the things I do, want to do and have aspired to do someday.” It’s hopefully about “inspiration to others, life and the drastic changes and curves it can toss your way. it’s about being yourself without all the glitter and glamor of desperately keeping up with the Jones’. It’s about expression, choices, frolicking in the sun and, of course keeping it real.”
Why is it so hard for some people to be themselves? Maybe they fear judgment or expectations. Judgment is inevitable but remember that no one can hurt you without your consent. Expectations on the other hand leads to disappointment, of course. There will always be people who don’t like you; for the way you look, the way you talk, the things you say or do and even the things you believe in. People who hate you (usually for no reason at all) are just plain insecure, they say, because you are a reflection of what they don’t have or what they can’t be. But i wouldn’t deny that most of the time i would also constantly dwell on what the naysayers would think about me (most of us always do). I wonder how people see me. As humans, we care and worry too much and sometimes we seek some people’s approval or acceptance in every choices and paths we take but isn’t it that whatever we do, we’ll be criticized anyway? Eleanor Roosevelt says so, that’s why we should do whatever we feel right in our hearts. Whenever people tell you can’t, won’t or shouldn’t, if you believe it is the right thing to do, never let them stop you and prove to them that you can. You can’t go around explaining to everyone everything. They say, avoid telling your secrets or problems to the world because some care but the rest are only curious. We can’t control what other people say or think about us, but we can control how we react towards or deal with them. It’s always your choice if you let someone else ruin your day or worse, take charge of your life. Those who are true to you are the only ones that matter. The saying “You can’t please everyone” holds true because the moment you start doing so, you’ll never be happy. -
So, it’s about keeping it real everyone and finding our place in the sun!